Asia Asian Game Asian girls Asian Women attraction blog Culture game japanese girls Japanese women Meeting meeting women pickup women

Where to Meet Japanese Women in Tokyo


Tokyo…what I affectionately name, the Huge Sushi Roll.  As the only absolutely developed Asian mega city in the world, it has all types of wonders on supply—here is your guide on the place to go, to meet attractive Japanese ladies.

Massive city nights? Sure, in the event you’re in Japan.

The first thing you must know is that Japanese individuals are weekend night time owls. While the last practice residence for everyone is round midnight, many people out for an evening on the town will catch the first practice in the morning, round 5am. This is particularly widespread among younger individuals due to the extremely excessive value of taking taxis.

Ok, so the place to go?

by RedpoleQ


Movin’ on UP!

Roppongi is among the most famous neighborhoods in Tokyo, together with Shinjuku(and Kabukicho), Shibuya and Ginza. It’s situated on the Hibiya line and on the a lot newer Oedo line, however can also be easily reachable by bus 01 from Shibuya.

It’s been often known as the overseas space for a very very long time and once I first moved to Japan in 2000 it was a total dump, though apparently there have been all the time several excessive class hostess bars and different prime finish establishments situated in the depths of buildings off the primary drag.

The completion of Roppongi Hills, an enormous multi-building labyrinthine complicated that includes workplaces, flats, retail shops, eating places, a cinema, a number of “parks”, a large e-book retailer, 3 Starbucks coffee outlets, a grocery retailer, and a DVD rental shop, actually moved the are upscale, nevertheless. Roppongi’s improvement continued with Roppongi Mid-town, which homes the Ritz-Carleton lodge & residences, together with a lot of restaurants, workplaces, outlets, public spaces, and –in fact– a Starbucks.


Only a ways down the street in the direction of Roppongi 1-Chome station is Ark Hills another comparable complicated. Whereas the primary road can still be pretty seedy, with numerous African touts making an attempt to pull you into random bars and crowds of drunk western school youngsters roaming the road on weekends, it is still top-of-the-line locations to meet Japanese ladies.

Typically Roppongi is an effective selection for assembly ladies at clubs, bars and cafes when the after work crowd is getting dinner or drinks. Throughout weekends there are plenty of engaging ladies strolling around. The most effective spot to meet them is Roppongi Hills, specifically at the Starbucks/bookstore/DVD rental combo complicated. When it comes to assembly women at night time, nevertheless, there are much more choices.


First off, the club and bar scene is consistently shifting. Crackdowns happen frequently, particularly on giant dance golf equipment. One of many extra famous and well known institutions, Muse (“Can’t lose at Muse!”) was raided by the police, and a number of other employees members have been arrested. Muse has since re-opened and from reviews is as hopping as ever!

This is not uncommon in Japan and often is as a result of the house owners haven’t been working towards tight sufficient safety and there have been brawls or other forms of disturbances. In Japan any institution that has dancing after midnight is required to operate with a particular allow that the government not often issues. As such all night time golf equipment are operating “illegally”. What this means in apply is that if the house owners of an evening membership are inflicting any issues in the neighborhood by not controlling their clientele(rowdiness, extreme public drunkenness, too many fights, and so on.) then they’ll use the shortage of the permit to arrest the house owners and shut the club down. In any case, in typical Japan style, Muse like most other golf equipment that get shut down will in all probability re-open in the same location, with the identical format, with a brand new identify after a number of months.

Up till the closure, Muse was properly generally known as a place that Japanese feminine professionals, often in their mid to late 20s, go to get down with overseas guys. It used to be that the same crowd would normally “pre-game” it with a number of drinks at one other bar, referred to as Heartland that is in Roppongi Hills earlier in the night time, however after Heartland re-opened as Tusk, it doesn’t seem as in style as it once was.

Tusk, previously, Heartland has traditionally been a banker bar as a result of Barclays and Lehman have been each situated in Roppongi Hills, so it tends to appeal to ladies in their late 20s and early 30s with a number of youthful women sprinkled in the combination. The gang tends to go for a more refined look. A lot of the guys there don’t do much approaching so it’s pretty straightforward to have the decide of the litter however, in common, younger guys showing less properly off gained’t do nicely there.

Since Heartland closed (and re-opened,) most of the bankers (and banker hunters, presumably) have moved on and up to one other bar-restaurant in Roppongi Hills, referred to as Rigoletto. Rigoletto has an oblong bar close to the entrance-way of the restaurant and an excellent view overlooking the town and Tokyo tower. The gang is fairly small, so it’s better for those who’re on the lookout for a spot to chill for a drink or two whereas holding an eye fixed out for a women which will curiosity you. You possibly can reach it by taking an elevator to the fifth flooring of elevator closest to Zara.

The gang at a971 in Roppongi Midtown could be very comparable however it’s a smaller place so doesn’t have almost as many people. It’s all the time value swinging by to take a look at, although.

A Great Choice…

The last bar that’s nicely value going to is the Hub, situated on Roppongi’s essential strip in the basement previous Wendy’s simply before the corner that leads to the Onerous Rock Cafe. Women typically outnumber guys there and the blokes that do go there not often strategy. I’ve seen ladies visibly jealous as a result of me and my associates have been busy talking to a special group of women. It has a really laid back environment and the format makes it fairly straightforward to speak to virtually anyone there. The women vary in age from early 20s to early 30s; and, in the event you’re into younger cute women who actually need to converse English, that is arms down the most effective place in Roppongi.

The Club Scene in Temporary

For golf equipment, Feria used to be a sensible choice. It attracts a really international crowd — a lot of western fashions, Japanese People, and Japanese international faculty graduates. The lighting is a bit darkish for my style and the social circles run deep however it’s still very straightforward to meet women there. For those who’re new to Japan and need to hang out with a youthful get together crowd then you definitely’ll discover it great. The English ranges are fairly high and for those who hang out in front of the elevators you’ll be able to have some pretty straightforward strategy alternatives.

It closed down on the end of 2015, moved to Azabu Juban and reopened as Elle. The bottom flooring is where all the motion is, but for approaching women, the highest flooring is where you need to be. It’s more like a lounge than a club so it’s easier to interact but there isn’t much room.

Then there’s A-life which seems to keep in the same spot but rotate names. It used to be my favorite place in Roppongi before Vainness opened as a result of the format is good for partying. Lately it can be hit and miss with some weekend nights completely packed and others which might be fairly empty. You possibly can scope out the road before you go in and see if it’s wanting like an enormous night time. It’s situated across from Roppongi hills so it’s straightforward to discover.

V2, previously Vainness, is one in every of my favourite spots. It’s a very Japanese scene with plenty of younger workplace woman(OL) sort women and young salarymen making an attempt to have fun and hook up. Later in the night time, around 3pm, a second wave of women show up after they get off of their hosting jobs. Plenty of Japanese guys right here throw round money hoping that champagne will lead them to some straightforward action. It’s not a very foreigner pleasant or hostile scene, despite the low English ranges. Normally, the women there are undoubtedly up for fun.

Lastly, very long time foreigner hang-out, Muse, is again in business. It’s more Japanese than it used to be, but you possibly can’t beat the format. The previous adage, “You can’t lose at Muse” is just not true like it was again in the day when Japanese women there were on the lookout for the subsequent foreigner, however it’s still a number of fun and top-of-the-line places to work together with ladies with it’s two flooring and three rooms plus plenty of nooks and crannies to maintain it fascinating.


Finally, in the event you’re new to Japan, the it is best to undoubtedly hit up any of the innumerable international events held repeatedly in Roppongi like Tokyo Pub Crawl or others yow will discover on the place it’s straightforward to go and meet individuals, make buddies and discover Japanese women that speak pretty good English and are eager to meet new guys. Roppongi has been one among Tokyo’s premier dining, purchasing, business, and nightlife entertainment neighborhoods for many years for a great cause. It will not be your most popular surroundings, nevertheless it’s undoubtedly value spending some time in, particularly because it’s probably the most foreigner friendly space in all of Japan.

*Obtained favorite spot you in Roppongi? Depart it in the feedback under with a brief description. Thanks!


Ahhhh, Shibuya.  Maye probably the most well-known place in all of Japan, it’s been featured in films as totally different as Quick and Furious: Tokyo Drift and Misplaced in Translation and doubtless a whole lot of other widespread films, and movies.  So what accounts for it’s reputation and does it stay up to the hype?

Survey says….YES!

Shibuya has a number of things going for it that make it the most effective spots on the planet for meeting ladies and perhaps THE greatest spot on the planet for assembly Asian women.

So MANY Women!

The sheer volume of individuals in round Shibuya imply that there is an inexhaustible number of ladies to strategy at any time of the day or night time.  Veteran Tokyo watcher, Danny Choo(son of Jimmy Choo of the shoe), says that 45,000 individuals cross each 30 min which suggests simply greater than 1million per DAY!

And if that weren’t sufficient…

Greatest Style

Shibuya is Japan’s trend capital…positive some individuals will say that Harajuku matches the invoice more but a) Harajuku is simply a brief stroll away and b) when it comes to mass market style, Shibuya wins, palms down.

As a younger buck on the hunt, what this implies for you is that Shibuya is teeming with 100s of THOUSANDS of younger Japanese women dressed to kill.  There have been various reviews of men breaking their own necks making an attempt to take it all in or being overwhelmed after newly arriving from the west.

Every little thing Is Here

Not only are all the ladies you possibly can ever need swirling round you as they disperse from Shibuya crossing in all instructions going to cafes, restaurants, bars, clubs, karaoke, department shops, and other clothes shops of all types, but Shibuya can also be house to probably the most famous “happening bar” in Tokyo, referred to as Sleeping Magnificence (a occurring bar is a sort of intercourse membership).


What meaning is that there are so many locations to go to meet ladies that you would be able to take your decide.  In the event you like meeting women on the street, NO PROBLEM.

In the event you like meeting women at cafes, NO PROBLEM.

In the event you like assembly women at bars, NO PROBLEM!

When you like assembly women at golf equipment, NO PROBLEM!

The One Disadvantage

Now, before you explode out of your pants just fascinated by all that Shibuya has to supply a younger(or not so younger) man on the go, there’s one disadvantage to Shibuya over Roppongi…or perhaps two relying on your proclivities.

Some guys…apparently, for reasons I can’t understand, don’t like younger women.  Should you choose your ladies above the age of 25, then Shibuya shouldn’t be the place for you.  Shibuya is a youth centered area, which is likely one of the reasons there’s so much exercise there all day everyday.

It’s additionally frequented by less professional ladies who tend to have extra working class jobs and a decrease instructional attainment.  Many of those women are hair dressers, nail artists, clothes store employees, and different kinds of jobs that don’t require school levels.  If that’s not your bag, Shibuya is just not for you.  Please depart it to the professionals like me.  (LOLS *wink*)

Nevertheless, this does feed into the one somewhat critical disadvantage of assembly women in Shibuya and that’s the low ranges of English capacity.  This can be kind of of an issue for you, depending on how snug you’re working via language limitations.  Moreover, as mentioned, the sheer quantity of girls signifies that yow will discover a woman who can converse critical English right here too, it’s simply going to imply that you simply’ll have to undergo extra women.

In the event you like young Japanese ladies with blonde hair and brief skirts, Shibuya is your home.  In the event you like, younger Japanese ladies with blonde hair and brief skirts who converse English, Shibuya continues to be your home.

Now, the place to go…

Cafes in Shibuya

Whereas there are cafes all over the place, there are really solely 2 that I strongly advocate for assembly ladies.

While most any Startbucks, Doutour, or Tully’s will do, the Starbucks on the 2nd flooring of the Tsutaya right on Shibuya crossing is arms down one of the best spot as a result of…yet one more time…VOLUME!

There are more women passing by means of that Starbucks for a coffee after work, a coffee earlier than work, killing time between purchasing, waiting for associates, and so on than another Starbucks in Japan.  The seating is close collectively, so it’s straightforward to work together with nearby tables so you don’t even have to work very onerous on the initial strategy.


The multi-floor Tsutaya video/DVD rental/gross sales signifies that in addition to the Starbucks there are any variety of ladies searching the store as nicely that you would be able to meet and easily bounce for coffee too.  It’s open until at the least 2am so you’ll be able to go there at virtually any hour and find something you like.

If that’s not enough, on the 8th flooring the place all of the girly magazines are, is a classy cafe/restaurant referred to as Wired Cafe.  You’ll be able to convey your laptop computer and get to work whereas also benefiting from the various women that come to have a chew to eat or need a extra refined and relaxed cafe expertise than the Starbucks downstairs gives.

Better women frequent the smoking part, than the non-smoking part, so choose your seating according to your priorities!

Bars and Clubs in Shibuya

Shibuya is extra of a club than a bar space (barring Japanese fashion “izakayas,” in fact) but there’s one bar that opened just some months ago that is fairly value going to.  For those who’ve read this text in earlier editions or when you learn the Roppongi section above you’ll not be stunned on the identify of this beneficial institution…

THE HUB!  Yup, late last yr, they opened a brand new, massive location simply across “center-gai” from the Tsutaya/Starbucks on Roppongi crossing.  It was amazingly crowded once I went there and the gang was very comparable to the Roppongi Hub.  Numerous non-Japanese and Japanese University college students have been there to mix and mingle.  It’s nicely lit, so you possibly can see what you’re getting yourself into.

Very friendly, and straightforward to chat up women there.  If you would like to get together more durable than that though, you’ll want to hit up certainly one of Shibuya’s many, many clubs, though.

There are more golf equipment in Shibuya than some other a part of the town.  So many in proven fact that I haven’t been to all of them however from what I know and the word on the street, if it’s ladies you’re in search of there are just a few greatest options.

My personal favorite is Camelot.  There’s not a lot to say except that the massive mingle areas in entrance of the bars on every of the two flooring imply that it’s quiet and spacious sufficient you could speak simply without getting jostled each few seconds.  It’s largely Japanese and the blokes are actually pretty aggressive so don’t hesitate as the vultures are swarming.  Camelot tends to appeal to woman in their early 20s, say 22-24.

Shibuya: have your cake and eat it, too!
Shibuya: have your cake and eat it, too!

Extra Lately, although, T2, has hit the scene.  It’s been open for a few yr now, and I’ve been a couple of occasions and it might be the new scorching spot for clubs in Shibuya.  I’d say that this if for the much less onerous core music and membership fan and extra of your, “average person on a night out” sort of place.  Extra “salarymen” and “office ladies” right here than at the other golf equipment, but still a reasonably young crowd going from early to mid 20s.

Should you drop by, you’ll be able to inform DJ Vivid that you simply heard about it from me!

Another good selection is Membership Atom which is barely younger than Camelot with more women in the 20yo vary which signifies that it’s larger power.  I’m not an enormous fan because it’s darker and louder than Camelot, but in case you are into EDM and laser lights and prefer meeting women while dancing, Atom may be your spot.  The standard of the women is certainly up to velocity.

In case you’re a hip-hop music fan, or only a fan of “b-girls”, then Harlem is your home.  It’s right next to Atom and has an enormous dance flooring brimming with women getting down.  It’s virtually the same crowd as Atom with a lot of give attention to dancing and getting your celebration on.  As soon as once more the darkness of the place makes it not my favorite however still a sensible choice.

In Summary…

Shibuya is rather more Japanese than foreigner pleasant Roppongi the place women are going figuring out they’ll meet foreigners.  Having stated that though, most of the women in Shibuya can be a lot pleased to meet a non-Japanese guy.  You’ll find that women in Shibuya shall be rather more uncomfortable on common interacting with foreigners and lots of of them have never met a foreigner earlier than.

The youth degree signifies that most of them have yet to journey abroad as properly in order that they really have far much less expertise and exposure to foreigners and overseas tradition.  Hold that in thoughts in case you determine to wander over to Shibuya to see the most effective that Japan has to supply.


Shinjuku is another certainly one of Tokyo’s iconic neighborhoods.  Situated simply three stations from Shibuya on the Yamanote “loop” line, it is a straight shot to Roppongi on the Oedo line.

It’s most well-known for it’s famous purple mild district, Kabuki-cho, which is nice for a stroll and to take a look at the scene but not so great for assembly real ladies.  (It’s not great for assembly any ladies, really, as a result of Japan doesn’t permit foreigners to participate in a lot of the entertainment that the women of the night time have to supply).

Nevertheless, there’s one bar that is respectable for assembly ladies though not that much quantity in my expertise, and for those who’ve been studying this, you possibly can guess the identify of it…THE HUB!  It’s a couple of buildings down from the large Don Quijote on the corner.

While there are loads of locations for dates in Shinjuku, the nightlife doesn’t have many choices for a young guy on the make and it has much more open spaces making it among the best decisions in the warmer months when the climate is sweet.

My favorite spot, is what’s referred to as, the Shinjuku South Terrace which is simply throughout the road from the JR South exit.  There’s a broad promenade with a heavily trafficked Starbucks that has plenty of seating outside. When the climate is good, there are loads of individuals (and Japanese ladies, particularly) lining the partitions on both aspect of the promenade too.

Additional down, there’s a giant Krispy Kreme and a Franc Franc interior retailer that all the time has at the very least a handful of engaging ladies shopping the store on the lookout for the newest factor to spruce up their room.  All the numerous gadgets and gadgets make for nice dialog items too.

To be continued…


Coming quickly…